“Words are a 'frequency',
and Communication is like a live wire;
I prevent people from short-circuiting themselves,
or electrocuting others!”
~ Cynthia Hayes, CEO and founder, LifeChimes, Int'l.
Professionalism and Experience
My name is Cynthia "Cindy" Hayes, and I'm glad you stopped by!
I'm an Author, speaker, solution-focused Communication Coach, and Wellness Advocate.
Are you STUCK? Is there someone or some thing in your life that is just not getting anywhere? You feel like you've tried everything you can think of to change it, but somehow, it just isn't making progress let alone being resolved.
I can help!
I love to break down the barriers of hit and miss 'con'-versation, and use-less thinking with purity, raw integrity, and transforming clarity!
As an experienced coach and consultant, I have tools and understanding to help you create the solutions and life that you imagine and want.
WORDS matter. But so does our perspective.
I respect people who have an opinion and can gracefully convey it with confidence and authenticity. I have always had the gift of discernment since I was young, but never really realized what a gift it is!
I made mistakes in judgment more times than I care to remember, too. One thing I was never afraid to do, was SPEAK.
If you feel like you're struggling to get heard, or can't bring yourself to confront an issue, then we should talk!
So many of the most awkward and disheartening experiences are within our own families, workplace, or close friends.
Isn't it time to just LIVE with the real TRUTH and freedom of speech, so there is no question about our feelings, or offenses or just sheer confusion over mixed messages? And who has time for DRAMA??! I sure don't!
There is a way to complete peace of mind. And it's God's way. He's no pansy!! Jesus wasn't a timid guy, he was a guy in CONTROL. He was gentle, but firm, and knew exactly what he represented, and whom. He had no issues with self-esteem OR haters.
He's seen it all, and more than you can ever imagine or handle.
The bonus? A renewed sense of respect, self-awareness, confidence, and HOPE.
What Does This Really Mean?
Our daily habits determine what our future will be.
When we take some time to reflect on all that we think, ponder, obsess on, and get angry over, we've probably wasted half of the day.
To "Seize" the day, is to determine your attitude ahead of time. First thing in the morning, and maybe even the night before, we can actually anticipate the day by what we can ACCOMPLISH in it.
Not all tasks or events in the day may be a pleasant thing to look forward to, BUT -- instead of the dread, our focus is dedicated to the outcome, or completion of a thing, or progression toward a solution or decision.
This takes the 'overwhelm' out right from the beginning, so that we can set our minds on all that is Possible, not impossible, and what might turn out to be better than what we thought to be 'probable'.
When we take just a few minutes to organize and summarize plans or commitments we've made for the day ahead, we'll get more time to give them to prayer and to our Heavenly Father the night before, -- who, by the way, knows all, sees all, and from angles we NEVER will!
Preparing smart is what they say, and sure to help us "Seize the Day!"
Committing to a healthier mindset, or lifestyle, in my opinion, will mean exploring the spiritual side of life, and it is just that – a commitment. One that will take some dedication and willing determination, to see progress and change. Why? Because we were created as spiritual beings.
But believe me when I tell you, it will be SO worth it!
My personal commitment is to provide you with balance, accountability, understanding, and supportive recommendations while accomplishing lasting growth.
You know, there is an old saying: "Nothing Changes, if Nothing Changes".
When we don't speak and set a matter straight, it leaves room for others to speculate.
When we are clear about our core beliefs, ethics and direction, and do not waiver, we are taken seriously.
The byproduct of that, is admiration for taking a stand for your values, and to be prepared to defend them if questioned.
Not sure what your values are? Might be time to list some.
Think about it!
Whose Benchmark for Health and Success Are You Following? Whose Voice Do You Listen To?
Ladies and Gentlemen, we should not be spending our God-given GIFT of LIFE on matters that divide us as a people. We are all precious in His sight, but we better get it right ---- those who 'CLAIM' to believe in the Creator of the Universe, but don't bother reading what HE really cares about, are lying to themselves, and others.
Many will not agree with what I just said, and that is OKAY by me. My calling and mandate, is to speak TRUTH, and HOPE, and the right dividing of it.
HIS process leads to PROGRESS, every time.
The Bible says in Hebrews 4:12 (NIV):
12 "For the word of God is Alive and Active.
Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing the soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart."
Seems to me we ought to pay attention to the One who walks across the mountain tops and holds the clouds and stars in His hands!!
And finally, whose report of what is acceptable, pure of heart, and of faithful stewardship are we going to pattern our values after?
The Bible says in Romans 12, Verses 1 and 2 (AMP):
1 Therefore I urge you, brothers and sisters, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies [dedicating all of yourselves, set apart] as a living sacrifice, holy and well-pleasing to God, which is your rational (logical, intelligent) act of worship.
2 And do not be conformed to this world [any longer with its superficial values and customs], but be transformed and progressively changed [as you mature spiritually] by the renewing of your mind [focusing on godly values and ethical attitudes], so that you may prove [for yourselves] what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect [in His plan and purpose for you]."
Yeah, that's the "PROCESS" in Living Splendor!
We've got the Owner's Manual for it all! We are "like iron sharpening iron", co-laborers and partners, walking out our unique purpose, HIS way.
That's where I come in! My business cards say this right on the front... 'Wellness and Words'.
They go hand in hand, and are literally, a match made in HEAVEN!
"Love with Wisdom
is the KEY to healed and healthy hearts"
Seize the Day!